The signs of a cheating husband or wife can be quite easy to spot if you know what to look for!

But sometimes if you don't know what to look for, the signs of infidelity which sometimes can be very subtle and hard to recognize can go unnoticed. Before you know it your partner is leaving you, which can be devastating for the innocent and unsuspecting partner. People who find themselves in this situation can feel that the whole world has fallen in on top of them and to the unlucky innocent party there seems to be nowhere to turn for help or consolation.
But could they have done something to stop this from happening?
Well the sad fact is if their spouse wanted to cheat in the first place then they could not have done much to avoid this situation happening in the first place but to be forewarned is to be forearmed.
Hindsight as anyone will tell you would be great but as we all know its always too late!
But what if, you could have benefit of hindsight? What if, you could spot the signs that your partner is cheating on you?
Here are the top five signs that something is not as it should be...If your Spouse ...

1.Starts to take a greater interest in their own personal hygiene.
2.Talks about one person all the time or accidentally calls you by a different name or nickname.
3.Suddenly starts buying different smelling toiletries.
4.Changes their old wardrobe for new clothes.
5.Will not let you answer their mobile phone or even see it.

What would you do if you found out the worst? ... The answer to that is up to the individual, but having the ability to spot the signs of infidelity from your partner is infinitely better than taking the 'head in the sand' approach and hoping all your fears will come to nothing! Positive action is required and making yourself familiar with the signs and the methods for checking up on a spouse will benefit you greatly.
For example, you might just suspect something or maybe you get a strange feeling. Well by checking out a few details on the Internet like, that strange phone number or name you found on a piece of paper or the unfamiliar phone number that hangs up when you answer. You need to check it so what do you do? You could try some free public information website but they Usually say that they provide free public records searches but the reality is that the information you get from these sites can be vague or not available at all and it can be a totally frustrating time for someone who is searching.
The best route to go down in my opinion is with a paid public records search site because the quality of information is far superior and they update their databases all the time so the information you will get will be up to date and top notch! If you are looking for Information like marriage, court and death records they are pretty common place and these details can be found on some free sites.
But and its a big but, you will only get the best, the most precise, and the most detailed up to date information only if you are prepared to pay a small price for it and believe me it is worth every cent of the very small subscriptions.
The good news is by just using it you most probably will find that your partner is totally innocent!
This important information will put your mind at ease and you can get on with your marriage secure in the knowledge that the person you love is not cheating on you.

R Cantrell copyright 2009